the break up top

 

Once again, an off-the-shoulder top wins me over! It's so lightweight and can be worn dressy or casual. also if you are wondering what type of bra i wear with these kinds of tops--I wear a stick on bra from wal mart. I wear these type of bras with all my tank tops and off-shoulder tops, so my straps don't show. This bra is a summer must have!

Shop the bra here.

So I'd like to steer away from clothes talk again. I am not even sure how many people actually take the time to read my posts, but I want to know if anyone else has gone through a harsh break up? I am sure most of you have, and if not, you will. it is not easy. i personally have been through several and i am only 21, but I am counting breaking up with the same person more than once. How does the human deal with break ups? the common answer is distraction. the normal thing to do after a break up is finding something else to obsess over and get involved in. for example, exercise, hanging out with friends, going on dates with new people, binge watching netflix, excessive eating, finding new hobbies, etc. these are all great things to distract yourself with, but are they permanent distractions? no. it is so hard to formally get over a broken heart. It takes time! It takes a lot of time. However, I don't see anything wrong with that. i think everyone deserves time in their life to heal. I think the best distraction is to find love within yourself. Find what makes you happy and do more of that. It is a lot easier said than done, but whatever you do, make sure it is benefiting you and only you. You have to find the inner you and take care of her/him. It is only fair to finally give yourself the attention  you need. That is another reason why I started this blog, not for a distraction, but because I finally wanted to put time into something I love,  for myself.. I deserve it and so do you! Get out there and do what you love. 

thanks for reading.

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